The Baby Ate My Brain Cells: Example One

Pregnancy brain. It's a real thing & lasts WAY past pregnancy. Here is an example from yesterday.

I was letting my husband sleep as long as possible before waking him up to get ready for church. He was only off 2 days, so, I wanted to make the most of it plus let him sleep in some to catch up on rest. 

When I tried to wake him, he said that he felt bad. His throat hurt & he had chills during the night. I checked his temperature & it was 100.1. I gave him a dose of DayQuil & let him rest. 
I'm sympathetic but this is also accurate! LOL!

I had a little "good angel, bad angel" going on. Good angel saying... He's the provider, he needs the rest... Let him sleep.
Bad angel saying... If it was you with a cold then you wouldn't have the option to lay in the bed ALL day & ALL night. 
Well, it's true for most. 


At 5pm I decided to wake him up because he needed a shower & something to eat. He needed his strength, right? 

***Oh & FYI: He could sleep that long without being sick. Ask anyone. It's because he works a swing shift & his sleep is erratic. 

Well, after he showered he did actually feel better. I told him to come & let me give him another dose of DayQuil for good measure. He realized as I was about to measure out the dosage that I was holding NyQuil. Yes, I had drugged him & that's why he slept all day. 

The rest was good for him. I'm glad he got it! So, my wife fail turned into a blessing for him. 

I still want my day of sleep though! I keep telling him that his next day off I'm gonna leave for 13 hours. Get a hotel room & sleep. Just sleep. A momma can dream right? 

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